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好吗
好吗
hǎo ma
interrogative
可以吗
可以吗
kěyǐ ma
interrogative
行吗
行吗
xíng ma
interrogative
怎么样
怎么样
zěnmeyàng
interrogative
是不是
是不是
shì bú shì
interrogative

Common errors

1. Syntactic Errors

1.1 Doubling interrogative markers

These sentence-final interrogatives attach to a declarative clause. Learners may produce ‘double interrogatives,’ which are unnatural.

*我们明天见吗,好吗?
我们明天见,好吗?

*我們明天見嗎,好嗎?
我們明天見,好嗎?

1.2 Using 吗/嗎 after 怎么样/怎麼樣

怎么样/怎麼樣 already forms a question. Learners may accidentally add 吗/嗎 at the end of the sentence.

*用这个办法,怎么样吗?
用这个办法,怎么样?

*用這個辦法,怎麼樣嗎?
用這個辦法,怎麼樣?

2. Semantic Errors

2.1 Misuse of 怎么样/怎麼樣 as general WH-question

Learners may confuse 怎么样/怎麼樣 (asking for evaluation) with 什么/什麼 or other WH-words. It is helpful if the instructor can emphasize that the discourse function of these expressions is to manage politeness and face.

*你怎么样东西喜欢?
你喜欢什么东西?
这个怎么样?

*你怎麼樣東西喜歡?
你喜歡什麼東西?
這個怎麼樣?

2.2 Mixing functions of 好吗 / 可以吗 / 行吗 / 怎么样/ 好嗎 / 可以嗎 / 行嗎 / 怎麼樣

Learners often treat these as interchangeable, but they target different meanings: approval (好吗) / permission (可以吗) / feasibility (行吗) vs opinion / evaluation (怎么样).

The teacher can provide clear differentiation between these four interrogatives:

  • 好吗:  asking ‘Is that okay?’, ‘All right?’. It is usually used after a suggestion or request to ask if the other person agrees or accepts it.
  • 可以吗: asking ‘May I?’, ‘Is that allowed?’, ‘Is it possible?’. The focus is on whether the action is permitted or possible, not just ‘if it’s OK’ in a general sense.
  • 行吗: asking ‘Is that ok (as a plan)?’, ‘Will that do?’, ‘Is that workable?’. It checks workability, feasibility or whether something is acceptable as a plan.
  • 怎么样: asking ‘How about…?’, ‘How is it?’. It invites an opinion, evaluation or reaction.

*我在这里抽烟,怎么样?(unnatural for permission)
我在这里抽烟,可以吗?

*我用你的电脑,怎么样?
我用你的电脑,行吗?

*我在這裏抽菸,怎麼樣?(unnatural for permission)
我在這裏抽菸,可以嗎?

*我用你的電腦,怎麼樣?
我用你的電腦,行嗎?

3. Pragmatics errors

3.1 Register and power distance

Learners may use 好吗/好嗎 (very friendly/soft) where 可以吗/可以嗎 or 行吗/行嗎 is expected for neutral/formal contexts, or use 行吗/行嗎 to a higher-status interlocutor where 可以吗/可以嗎 is more appropriate.

At workplace to a superior
你在会议上说这个,好吗?(too casual)
您在会议上说这个,可以吗?

At workplace to a superior
你在會議上說這個,好嗎?(too casual)
您在會議上說這個,可以嗎?

3.2 Directness vs. politeness strategies

Using 行吗/行嗎 can sound brisk/practical; 可以吗/可以嗎 is more polite; 好吗/號碼 is soft/affiliative; 怎么样/怎麽樣 invites views. Learners may sound too blunt or too vague when misusing them.

  • 我们现在开始,行吗?(efficient, neutral)
  • 我们现在开始,好吗?(softer, inclusive)
  • 我们现在开始,可以吗?(polite, permission-seeking)
  • 我们现在开始,怎么样?(open-ended and consultative)

Errors caused by native transfer

1. Overusing 好吗/好嗎 as a general ‘OK?’

Learners may overuse 好吗/好嗎 in all situations where English uses ‘okay’, including asking for permission or in more formal or power-asymmetric situations. This can sound too childlike, over-friendly, or informal with teachers, bosses, or strangers.

2. Treating 怎么样/怎麼樣 as a yes–no ending

Learners may use zěnmeyàng 怎么样/怎麼樣 where a clear yes–no form (好吗 / 可以吗 / 行吗 / 吗) is expected, or they may even stack it with 吗/嗎 and create forms like 怎么样吗/怎麽樣嗎.

你明天来,怎么样?(too vague when a yes–no is needed)
*我们去看电影,怎么样吗?

你明天來,怎麼樣?(too vague when a yes–no is needed)
*我們去看電影,怎麼樣嗎?

Classroom activity: Polite Request Chain!

Time:

20–30 minutes

Group Size / Format:

groups of 4–6 students

How to Play:

1. Students sit in a circle or small group. One student begins the chain by making a polite request or suggestion using one of the target structures:
“请借我你的手机,可以吗?”
“我们现在吃饭,怎么样?”
“我坐在这里,好吗?”
2. The next student must:
2.1 Respond naturally: “可以”, “不行”, “好啊”, “我觉得不太好”, etc.
2.2 Add their own new request (related or unrelated) to keep the chain going:
“我们再等五分钟,行吗?”
3. The game continues clockwise. Each student must:
3.1 React naturally to the last sentence
3.2 Start a new one using “好吗 / 可以吗 / 行吗 / 怎么样”
(If a student uses the wrong structure or can’t think of a sentence within 5–10 seconds, they pause the chain and get a “help card” so that he or she can ask their teammates or the teacher for help.)

Materials Needed:

A set of starter situation cards (e.g., 借东西、换座位、开窗/关窗、提前/推迟时间、点餐、排队、合影. If necessary, the teacher can pre-teach the vocabulary on the cards before the game.), timer (optional for challenge mode)

Variation:

Add “theme rounds.” For example, requests made on different occasions or locations(e.g., 教室场景、餐馆、旅行、宿舍).